Standing by and waiting for someone to change results in playing a great role in your own suffering. I’ve finally become an active participant in creating the change I crave in my life. It’s no small feat…accepting accountability and deciding I will no longer tolerate the unending sensational and illusory scandals and all the admissions wrapped up with all its inherent dishonors. While I’m picking up the pieces of my shattered heart because of making him more important to myself than I was to him, I’ve never been more certain that I’m never playing myself like that again. Remember, it’s never too late to change the epigenetic imprint we leave behind, now let’s get moving.